Their manipulative ways, superficial charm, combined with their obsessive nature, can often set into motion good things in their life. They so often get people to initially buy into their narrative, ideas, thoughts,… initially. But it doesn’t last. They end up pushing people against them, showing their true mask, which invariably acts as a repellent to all good things. And they are unable to see the correlations between their thoughts, behaviors, and actions, with what comes their way. They would rather see themselves as a victim, cultivating anger for all perceived injustices towards them, and then, project such anger outwards.

They express their anger in indirect way, with passive aggressive approach, doing things you don’t like on purpose to mess with your feelings, causing damage by doing things indirectly. Finally they will act like a victim to emotionally manipulate.